Friday, October 12, 2012

My Pretty Pink Wedding

Hello Sweet Friends!

Happy Pink Saturday!  I have so many beautiful pictures to show you of my wonderful wedding day.  The photographer took over 600 pictures so I picked out some great ones to share with you today.  I think I will show you some of the pretty things I made and the pretty pink decorations and then I will show you the ceremony and reception pictures.

 This is the train case I painted and decorated to collect cards for the wedding.  I bought it at a garage sale for $5 and it was a really ugly blue.  Now it is so beautiful and I am going to use it to display brochures or pretty hand made items in the gift shop at my bed and breakfast.

 The program table was so pretty.  I covered an old dictionary with scrapbook paper and then opened it to "love" and put a heart around that word with a pink marker.  I thought that was a neat idea.

 The candy bar had five different kinds of candy on it and we are still eating it to this day . . . and we will be for many months to come.  Let's just say I over-ordered on the candy.  But that's not a bad thing!

 I ordered this sign for my sweet little "flower girl"  to carry.  I added the lace and ribbon embellishments.  I am going to use this at the bed and breakfast too!
 The unity candle table was so pretty.  I just love mercury glass and these candle holders were perfect for my wedding day.
 I made the mothers and my grandma an embroidered hankie with a tag on it that said "happy tears".  I know there were a lot of those shed.
 These are the sweet match box favors my sweet mama and I made together.  I filled them with mint gum and there were only 6 left when the wedding was over.
 I used mason jars for the wedding punch - pink lemonade of course!  I tied pink ribbons on each jar and they all got a sweet pink and white straw too!
 Here is Miss Lucie - James youngest daughter - adding the picks I made to the wedding cupcakes.  The cakes looked so pretty when they all came together!
 I love cupcakes and I thought they were a perfect serving of cake for the wedding.  I love the colors and the pretty lace sleeves.
 I made a special pick for the bride and groom cupcakes.  I made those sweet cupcake holders too!  They turned out just perfect!
 Here I am after the ceremony.  I was so nervous but I guess it didn't show.  Even though I was nervous it was still a wonderful day.

 I just love my beautiful wedding dress.  It doesn't even look like the same dress since I altered it.  I am very happy with the way it turned out and now it really looks like "me".

 This was the bow on the back and I made that flower and put it on a clip and clipped it to the bow.  So feminine and pretty!  I love it!
 Cass was James' best man and they work together at the newspaper office.  Cass is a good friend to James.
 Here is my sweet maid of honor Dena.  I used to work with her but now that I quit my job because I am getting ready to open the bed and breakfast I don't get to see her as much and I miss her!

 I know I could not have made it through the day without my sweet mom.  She always knows how to calm me down and I am so thankful for her.  She looked so pretty that day and her dress was just beautiful.  She is a pretty lady on the outside and inside too!

 This is Miss Ruby, my cousin and my "flower girl".  She is very shy and it took her a long time to warm up but after she did she was such a ham!  She is such a beautiful, sweet little lady.

So now the ceremony has started and the processional has begun.  Then it was my turn to walk down the aisle.  Miss Ruby was supposed to go in front of me with her sign but she needed my hand (and I needed her too because of my nerves) so we walked out together.
 James met me half way down the aisle (because we believe in this relationship we both have to come half way and meet in the middle) and we walked to the alter together.
 The ceremony was beautiful and the minister said so many great things about us as individuals and as a couple.  The ceremony was very meaningful and very moving for both of us.
 There were many tears shed because we were so emotionally touched.  It was such a beautiful ceremony about the journey we have been on as individuals and where we are now in our lives together.
 Our poor minister had broken her wrist the day before our wedding.  She did the whole ceremony in extreme pain because she couldn't take any medicine.  We were so thankful for her commitment to us that day.
 We has a "ring warming ceremony" and the best man passed the rings around to the guests in a pretty bag.
 Each guest was supposed to say a prayer or blessing over the rings as they received them, then when the rings came back to us they were surrounded with all of our friends and family's love.
 We also read each other love letters and James' letter was so sweet and wonderful.  He gave me the letter after the wedding and I will cherish it forever.
 We lit our unity candles and the minister made it a point to remind us that even though we have become one we are still two individuals with our own unique identities and we should never lose them.  I loved that because I have had the habit of losing myself in my past relationships. I think I will do better this time.
 So now we are husband and wife!  I am now Mrs. Tammy Neal!
 I feel so blessed to be in love with and be loved by such a sweet, wonderful man.  James is one of the good ones and I am so happy that he now belongs to me!


 This is the whole family together!  From left to right - my grandma (Nanny), my mom and dad, my maid of honor Dena, Miss Lucie, Miss Ruby, Miss Maggie, James best man Cass, James mom and dad.
 I absolutely adore my wedding ring.  James had it custom made for me.  There are three stones that represent our past, present, and future; my birthstone is in it; it has a Celtic love knot all the way around it to bind my heart to his; it is lined in diamonds and each one represents the number of decades that he will be in love with me (and that is a lot).  What an amazing ring for such a blessed girl!

 We had a lot of fun seeing our friends and family during the reception time.  It was so nice to have them there to share our special day.
 I think this picture is so hilarious!  Don't you hate it went you get all tangled up?  That wedding toast thingy is not as easy as it looks!
 My sweet friend Dena has struggled with her weight for her whole life.  She has been working hard for a long time and she lost a lot of weight.  I think she is so beautiful inside and out no matter what but I am so proud of her for what she has accomplished for herself.  She set a goal for herself and she met it and I am so happy for her.  Doesn't she look lovely?
 I cannot describe to you how happy I am . . . but I think it shows, doesn't it?  It is so wonderful to have these times of perfect happiness, for they help us get through the tough times we all experience from time to time.  I have definitely experienced this perfect happiness and I feel so blessed!  God is so good to me!
 We did bubbles instead of rice or bird seed because it was less messy.  But I think somebody spit on me as we were running out the door.  I am hoping that was inadvertent!
James and I went back to our house to pick up our luggage and once there he gave me the sweetest charm bracelet with several charms already on it.  He wrote me another love note explaining what each charm meant and I cried as I read it because it was so sweet and meaningful to me.  I can't wait to fill it up with all kinds of charms that represent the amazing memories that make up our life together.  I am so blessed!

I hope you have enjoyed my wedding photographs and I hope you have a blessed weekend!

Blessings to you!
Love Tammy

Thursday, September 27, 2012

A Wonderful Day

Hello Friends!

The wedding day came and went quickly and it was such a wonderful day!  When I woke up that morning I had a serious case of the butterflies.  My hair stylist Rhonda came over and did my hair and makeup.  She did a great job and I felt a little better after she was done.

 As the day went on I got more and more nervous.  I think it was just because I had been planning this thing for almost a year and now it was happening!
 My mom came over soon after Rhonda was done with my hair.  I really needed her to calm me down.  I was such a nervous wreck!  She helped me get dressed so we could take some pretty pictures at my beautiful little house before going to the church.
 I absolutely LOVED my shoes and I hope I get to wear them again.  They are a sweet "Vera Wang Pink" and they matched perfectly with the pretty pink flowers I sewed on my dress.  I glued rhinestone buttons on them to dress them up.  They were just perfect!
 I sewed the date in blue embroidery thread inside my dress to give me "something blue".
 Here I am all dressed up.  The only thing that is missing is the veil and my beautiful bouquet.  Those pictures are coming soon!
 Here is my best friend Dena.  She was my maid of honor and she helped calm me down that day too.  She didn't have her bridesmaid's dress on yet because it was still at the taylors!  We really cut that one close!
 Her is my sweet mama.  Doesn't she look beautiful!  I absolutely love her beautiful dress.  I don't think I could have made it without her that day.  I was such a mess and she helped calm me down!
 I love this picture and plan to print it out and frame it.  I love my mom so much and I don't know what I would do without her.  I am so blessed to still have her in my life.  She is the best!
 Here are Maggie and Lucie, James' daughters and now my step-daughters.  They were very excited about the wedding and they were helpful when they got there, running here and there around the church since I couldn't come out of the bathroom for fear that James would see me.
 I don't have any of my pictures from the photographer back yet so I will have to show you those later.  I can't wait to see them myself!  We had a wonderful celebration and a very moving service.  I finally calmed down after I saw James.  He has that effect on me!  It was so wonderful to see my friends and family all together to celebrate our special day.  After the ceremony and reception, James and I went to Guthrie to stay at our favorite B&B.  It was so nice to get out of town and have my new groom all to myself!
I hope to post again soon with more wonderful pictures of the wedding.  I hope you have a wonderful day!

Blessings to You!
Love Tammy

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Pretty Wedding Things and Exciting News!

Hello Friends!

I have been so busy since I last posted!  I am so sorry it has been so long!  I have been getting things ready for my wedding that is on Saturday and I wanted to show you some of the things I have made for my special day!

I really, really, really wanted to have my wedding outdoors but I had to move the venue and now the new venue doesn't have a way to have sound or music outdoors so we will be having the ceremony inside.  I made these beautiful glass jars covered with different kinds of lace.  Some will have votive candles and others will have floating candles.  I am going to put them up and down the aisle so we can have a romantic candle-lit ceremony.  That will be fun!

I also made this pretty banner and decorated my whole house with white, ivory and silver.  My house looks like a bride-to-be!



These are the bouquets I made for the wedding.  The ivory one is mine and the pink one is for my maid of honor.  I made every petal of every flower by hand.  They are just stunning in person.

I made this darling "wedding cake" out of a round box that I covered with music paper.  Aren't the sweet love birds so cute?

This is a sweet bride and groom statue a friend gave to me for my shower (more about that later).  I love it under my cloche.  It is sitting on my dining room table right now.
This is a purse that came with my wedding dress.  I don't know if I told you this before or not but after I got my dress home I decided to make some alterations and now it looks COMPLETELY different, and it is SOOOO beautiful!  I can't wait to show you how it turned out.  So naturally I had to redo the purse, right?
Isn't it so much better?  I just love it!
Here are some corsages I made for all of the ladies in the wedding.  I had so much fun making these!
This is the corsage I made my mom.  I think it is so beautiful!
This little bitty one is on an ivory hair band and it is for my little flower girl.  It is so sweet!
This is the corsage that I will wear when I change in to my "going away" dress.  It is so feminine and romantic!
I made my Maid of Honor a gift bag and this is the tag I made to go on it.  There is a special message for her on the back.
The bag is filled with a pretty pink towel, a monogrammed bath robe, a jar of bubble bath, some tea bags, and her custom-made bouquet.
My mom and my Maid of Honor hosted a wedding shower for me at my church this past Sunday.  It was such a fun time!  I had so many of my girl friends and family that came and we got so many wonderful, lovely gifts.  My mom made me that sweet crown out of chicken wire and rose trim.  It is so darling!
She set up such a beautiful table of refreshments and I was so happy when I saw how pretty everything was!
She had these beautiful cupcakes made that were so delicious.  Aren't those roses just sweet!?  You can check out more details about the shower here.

I am almost finished with all of the preparations for the wedding.  I can't wait to decorate for the ceremony and reception.  I know it will be just beautiful and I can't wait to share my pictures with you!  I also have some other VERY exciting news to share.  Many of you know that I have been working on writing a business plan to open a candy store and cupcake boutique in my small town.  Well after much research and planning it looks as though the business just isn't going to work out right now.  It is going to cost way too much money to open up.  I could still feel God leading me away from my job though.  I really had to do a lot of praying and soul searching to figure out where God was leading me.  Finally I realized what I was meant to do.  So James and I got busy working on another business plan that is now complete and very well written.  We are now in the process of securing financing to open a bed and breakfast in a BEAUTIFUL house in the historic district of my home town.  I will share more with you about our plans and what God has done for us.  It is such an amazing story and we are actually writing things down as they happen because James is going to write a book about our amazing story.  This has been such an incredible journey and I see God moving and working through it all.  I can't wait to share more with you.  For now I ask that you please PRAY that God will bless us with financing quickly.  We have been working on getting financing for a few months now and it has been an uphill battle.  The homeowner and realtor are getting impatient and we are running out of options.  We so desperately need that financing to start this business so we can begin to touch the lives of each person that walks through our doors.  Please pray that something will come through soon.  Thank you so much for your help and support.

I hope you have a blessed day!
Love Tammy